'Become the friend that you would most like to have. If you would like to be popular and attract new people into your circle, then use the following skills.
- Extend your interests - and your personal network will develop
- Empathize with others and show them that you understand
- Listen well. Give people your undivided attention and they will feel valued and respected
- Develop your ability to make small-talk; find out what interests the other person. People feel more able to relax when the tone is light-hearted
As you become recognized as a person who is non-threatening and supportive, you will attract new relationships.'
